How to Make a Narcissist Jealous.

How to Make a Narcissist Jealous.

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Trying to make a narcissist jealous isn’t a good idea because it could upset them and create problems that you may not be able to handle on your own.

My best advice would be to get as far away as possible from them and get them out of your life altogether this is the very best advice when dealing with a narcissist and will make them very confused and jealous not knowing what you are doing anymore.

But if you must make them jealous then there are some sneaky tricks to really play with their minds. When you’re with the narcissist, pay more attention to other people, not them. Talk about the good things you’ve done; this might make them feel jealous. These are just a few ideas I have listed 10 killer ways to really mess with a Narcissist head below.

10 Ways To Make A Narcissist Jealous.

  1. Find someone who is better than them in every way possible.
  2. Make them feel like they are constantly being compared to others and falling short.
  3. Talk about how great your life is and how happy you are without them.
  4. Get attention from other people, especially people they are attracted to.
  5. Make it known that you are doing better without them.
  6. Go out and have fun without them, make sure they see you.
  7. Talk about how you don’t need them.

Find someone who is better than them in every way possible.

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If you want to make a narcissist jealous, find someone who is better than them in every way possible. Make sure this person is everything the narcissist wants to be, and more. Watch as the narcissist becomes consumed with envy and jealousy, trying unsuccessfully to one-up this person at every turn. It’ll be the ultimate satisfaction to see the narcissist’s self-esteem crumble as they realize they can never measure up.

Make them feel like they are constantly being compared to others and falling short.

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One way to make a narcissist jealous is to constantly compare them to others and make them feel like they are falling short. This will cause the narcissist to feel insecure and will trigger jealousy.

Talk about how great your life is and how happy you are without them.

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I am so happy without them! I don’t need them to make my life great, I can do that all on my own. I’m better off without them and their negativity. I’m surrounded by positive people who love and support me, and that’s all that matters. I’m happier than I’ve ever been, and I’m never looking back! Saying something along these lines will make the narcissist jealous.

Get attention from other people, especially people they are attracted to.

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There are a few things you can do to get attention from others, especially people you are attracted to. First, make sure you are always well-groomed and looking your best. Second, be confident and assertive in your interactions with others. Third, be sure to let the person know that you are interested in them – flirting is a great way to do this. Finally, remember that narcissists love attention, so if you can make them jealous, they will likely pay more attention to you as well.

Make it known that you are doing better without them.

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If you want to make a narcissist jealous, let them know that you are doing better without them. This will trigger their insecurity and fear of abandonment, and they will start to doubt their own worth. The more successful and happy you seem, the more jealous and threatened the narcissist will feel. So go out there and live your best life – it will be the best revenge against your narcissistic ex.

Go out and have fun without them, make sure they see you.

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The best way to make a narcissist jealous is to go out and have fun without them. Make sure they see you enjoying yourself and they’ll be green with envy. This is the perfect way to get back at a narcissist for all the pain and suffering they’ve caused you. Post on social media, go *live* when you are at a cool event. Make your life much more interesting when they are not around.

Talk about how you don’t need them.

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If you’re trying to make a narcissist jealous, you might as well save your breath. They don’t care about anyone but themselves, and they’re certainly not going to be bothered by your attempts to make them jealous. In fact, they’ll probably just find it amusing. Sooner or later, you’ll realize that there’s no point in trying to get a reaction out of a narcissist – they simply aren’t worth your time and energy.

These are our top tips to make a narcissist feel jealous next up we will take a look at the most commonly asked questions

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frequently asked questions

how to make a female narcissist jealous how to make a narcissist jealous

There are some general strategies that may be effective in causing jealousy in a female narcissist. One approach is to pay attention to and compliment other women in front of her, especially those who she perceives as being a threat. Another strategy is to ignore or reject her advances, which will likely lead to her becoming more clingy and possessive. Finally, it is often helpful to deliberately provoke her by flirting with or dating other people, as this will usually cause her to react with jealousy and insecurity.

how to make a narcissistic man jealous!

To make a narcissistic man jealous, you’ll need to create a situation where he feels like he’s not the center of attention. This can be done by talking to other people when he’s around, or by doing something that he perceives as better than him. You may also want to flaunt your own success or accomplishments to make him feel inferior. Ultimately, you want to make him feel like he’s not the only important person in your life, and that you have other options.

what happens if you make a narcissist jealous?

If you make a narcissist jealous, they may react in a number of ways. They may become withdrawn and sullen, or they may lash out in anger. They may also try to sabotage your relationships with other people. Narcissists are very insecure and jealous people, so it is best to avoid making them jealous if possible. It’s a dangerous game to mess with a narcissist as you never really know how they will react.

how to make a covert narcissist jealous?

To make a covert narcissist jealous, you need to first understand what their insecurities are. Once you know what their weaknesses are, you can exploit them by appearing to be better than them in those areas. For example, if they are insecure about their intelligence, you can make comments that insinuate that you are smarter than them. If they are insecure about their physical appearance, you can flaunt your own good looks or the attention you’re receiving from others. The key is to make them feel like they are inferior to you in some way, which will trigger their jealousy and insecurity.

Final Thoughts.

There are plenty of ways to make a narcissist jealous but it will depend on their personality and your relationship with them

At the end of the day do you want to stoop to their level to make a narcissist miserable? If you have enjoyed reading this post you may find this Things Covert Narcissists Say in an Argument (Spot The Signs) useful.

Phil Taylor
Phil Taylor Body Language Expert